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Ways To Quiet Your Mind-Calm Anxiety

  • Writer: Shannon Coulson
    Shannon Coulson
  • Aug 6
  • 2 min read


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🧠 Cognitive Techniques

  1. Name the ThoughtLabel anxious thoughts: ā€œI’m having a worry thought about the future.ā€ā†’ This creates distance between you and the anxiety.

  2. Thought Challenging (CBT)Ask:

    • Is this thought 100% true?

    • What’s the worst that could happen? Best? Most likely?

    • If a friend had this thought, what would I say to them?

  3. Reframe the NarrativeShift: ā€œI’m not readyā€ → ā€œI’m doing the best I can with what I have.ā€

šŸ§˜ā€ā™€ļø Mind-Body Practices

  1. Deep Breathing (4-7-8 technique)

    • Inhale 4 seconds

    • Hold 7 seconds

    • Exhale 8 seconds→ Slows heart rate and quiets the nervous system.

  2. Progressive Muscle Relaxation

    • Tense and release each muscle group from toes to head

    • Helps shift attention from mind to body

  3. Body Scan Meditation

    • Lie down or sit quietly

    • Focus attention on each part of your body sequentially

  4. Guided Meditations

    • Try apps like Insight Timer, Calm, or Headspace

šŸ“ Behavioral Strategies

  1. Write It Out

    • Do a ā€œbrain dumpā€ for 5–10 minutes in a journal

    • List your worries or looping thoughts

    • Optional: tear up or delete the page after

  2. Worry Time

    • Schedule 15 minutes/day to ā€œworryā€

    • Outside that time, remind yourself: ā€œI’ll think about this during worry time.ā€

  3. Sensory Grounding (5-4-3-2-1 Technique)

    • 5 things you see

    • 4 things you can touch

    • 3 things you hear

    • 2 things you smell

    • 1 thing you taste→ Brings you back into the present moment

šŸ› ļø Lifestyle Tools

  1. Limit Caffeine and Alcohol

    • Both can worsen anxiety symptoms

  2. Exercise

    • 20–30 minutes of walking, cardio, yoga can reduce anxiety through endorphin release

  3. Sleep Hygiene

    • Keep a regular bedtime

    • Limit screen time 1–2 hours before bed

    • Use a white noise machine or calming music if needed

šŸ’¬ Spiritual / Philosophical Approaches

  1. Mantras or Affirmations

    • Repeat calming phrases like:ā€œThis moment will pass.ā€ā€œI am safe right now.ā€ā€œI don’t have to figure it all out today.ā€

  2. Mindful Acceptance

    • Instead of fighting anxiety, try saying:ā€œI allow this feeling to be here without judgment.ā€

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