Ways To Quiet Your Mind-Calm Anxiety
- Shannon Coulson
- Aug 6
- 2 min read

š§ Cognitive Techniques
Name the ThoughtLabel anxious thoughts: āIām having a worry thought about the future.āā This creates distance between you and the anxiety.
Thought Challenging (CBT)Ask:
Is this thought 100% true?
Whatās the worst that could happen? Best? Most likely?
If a friend had this thought, what would I say to them?
Reframe the NarrativeShift: āIām not readyā ā āIām doing the best I can with what I have.ā
š§āāļø Mind-Body Practices
Deep Breathing (4-7-8 technique)
Inhale 4 seconds
Hold 7 seconds
Exhale 8 secondsā Slows heart rate and quiets the nervous system.
Progressive Muscle Relaxation
Tense and release each muscle group from toes to head
Helps shift attention from mind to body
Body Scan Meditation
Lie down or sit quietly
Focus attention on each part of your body sequentially
Guided Meditations
Try apps like Insight Timer, Calm, or Headspace
š Behavioral Strategies
Write It Out
Do a ābrain dumpā for 5ā10 minutes in a journal
List your worries or looping thoughts
Optional: tear up or delete the page after
Worry Time
Schedule 15 minutes/day to āworryā
Outside that time, remind yourself: āIāll think about this during worry time.ā
Sensory Grounding (5-4-3-2-1 Technique)
5 things you see
4 things you can touch
3 things you hear
2 things you smell
1 thing you tasteā Brings you back into the present moment
š ļø Lifestyle Tools
Limit Caffeine and Alcohol
Both can worsen anxiety symptoms
Exercise
20ā30 minutes of walking, cardio, yoga can reduce anxiety through endorphin release
Sleep Hygiene
Keep a regular bedtime
Limit screen time 1ā2 hours before bed
Use a white noise machine or calming music if needed
š¬ Spiritual / Philosophical Approaches
Mantras or Affirmations
Repeat calming phrases like:āThis moment will pass.āāI am safe right now.āāI donāt have to figure it all out today.ā
Mindful Acceptance
Instead of fighting anxiety, try saying:āI allow this feeling to be here without judgment.ā




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